Thursday, 22 May 2008

reality does it.

Some may disagree with what i'm discussing here but feel free to comment okay? Thanks to my friends who shared their views. (:

I feel that there's a thin line separating falling in love with the person and falling in love with the relationship. Some may phrase it differently but they mean the same. Like being in love with the person vs being in love with love.

Falling in love with the person = being attached to person. Wanting to meet the person/ needing the person (emphasize on not being over-needy as some parties may dislike such gluey attention).

Falling in love with the relationship = being attached to the actions and not the person. i.e. holding hands, hugging, etc.

I admit, it's difficult sometimes to distinguish, isn't it? But i think it's the feelings that draws one from the other.

Anw, some people tell me to never tell the guy certain stuff. But i feel otherwise. Letting the person know how you truly feel requires courage. And silly as it may be, sometimes i think i'm brave in a couple of aspects in life only.

I need the strength to face the others especially one called reality! I'm just afraid of facing the brutal truth sometimes. Then again, who doesn't? I'm just afraid of getting myself and the other party hurt. It's easy to wish for happiness. To fulfil it, it's alot of balance in giving and taking. It's easy to get into a relationship but takes everything to maintain it. *nods*

Man-u vs Chelsea now! whahahaha. I feel that Man-u will win unfortch. we'll see abt that!
And I'm hungry now =( Munch munch munch.

Why, you're the sweetest thing that happened to me. I like when you look me in the eyes sincerely, hold onto me tightly like there's no tml and even when you just fool around with ya tickles. But what i really love about you is that you make me feel special. (:
Or am i not special? ;)

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